Graph Databases: When relationships matter more than rows

Traditional databases are excellent for storing structured data — but not always for understanding how that data connects.
When the most valuable aspect of your information lies in the relationships between entities, graph databases fill that gap.


1. Why Graph Databases?

Graph databases are designed to model and query complex, connected data. While relational databases excel at structured information, they can become inefficient when handling many-to-many relationships or hierarchical structures.

In a graph database, connections are first-class citizens. Instead of joining tables, you traverse relationships directly, making it faster and more natural to explore complex networks such as social graphs, recommendation systems, or fraud patterns.


2. Core Concepts: Nodes, Edges, and Properties

At their core, graph databases consist of three building blocks:

  • Nodes represent entities such as people, products, or accounts
  • Edges represent relationships between entities, e.g. purchased, works_with, belongs_to
  • Properties store key-value attributes on both nodes and edges

If you are used to relational models, you can think of nodes as rows, edges as foreign keys, and properties as columns; but in graphs, everything is interconnected.

Neo4J relations graph

Source: neo4J


3. Data Modelling

Designing a graph model involves focusing on relationships as well as entities.

For example:

(Person)-[:KNOWS]->(Person)

This indicates who knows whom and can be extended with properties such as since: 2020 or strength: high.

Edges are usually directed, so

(A)-[:KNOWS]->(B) 

is different from

(B)-[:KNOWS]->(A) 

unless explicitly modelled as bidirectional.

Migrating from relational models often involves identifying key join relationships and converting them into edges.


4. Graph Query Languages

Graph databases use specialised query languages optimised for relationship traversal:

  • Cypher (Neo4j) – declarative and human-readable
  • Gremlin (Apache TinkerPop) – traversal-based, supported by several vendors
  • PGQL / SQL/PGQ – emerging standards that bring graph queries into SQL (now supported in Oracle and PostgreSQL 16+)

Example in Cypher:

MATCH (p:Person)-[:FRIEND_OF]->(f:Person)
WHERE p.name = 'Alice'
RETURN f.name;

This finds all friends of Alice – a single, elegant traversal instead of multiple joins.


5. Performance and Architecture

Graph databases store relationships natively, often using an index-free adjacency model – each node directly references its connected nodes.

This means:

  • Relationship queries are O(1) operations per hop.
  • Traversals such as “friends of friends of friends” are much faster than equivalent SQL joins.

However, bulk analytical queries or aggregations can be slower than in columnar or relational systems. Graph databases excel at connected queries, but not at heavy transactional or OLAP workloads.


6. Typical Use Cases

Graph databases excel wherever connections are important:

  • Fraud detection – identifying suspicious transaction networks
  • Recommendation engines“people who bought this also bought…”
  • Knowledge graphs – powering semantic search and AI context
  • Social and communication networks
  • IT infrastructure mapping – dependencies between microservices, servers, or APIs

7. Technologies and Ecosystem

There is a wide range of graph database technologies, both open-source and commercial:

DatabaseTypeLanguageNotes
Neo4jNativeCypherMost popular, strong community and tooling
TigerGraphNativeGSQLHigh-performance for enterprise analytics
Amazon NeptuneManagedGremlin, SPARQLAWS-native, fully managed
Azure Cosmos DBMulti-modelGremlinIntegrates with the Azure ecosystem
PostgreSQL (pg_graph, AGE)ExtensionSQL/PGQCombines relational and graph in one engine

For many enterprises, extending PostgreSQL with graph capabilities provides a pragmatic way to experiment without changing the core stack.


8. Integration and Hybrid Architectures

Graph databases rarely operate in isolation.
They are often used alongside relational and document systems in hybrid environments, for example:

  • Building recommendation graphs from transactional data
  • Exporting graph analytics to BI dashboards
  • Tracking data lineage across data pipelines

PostgreSQL with pg_graph enables this within the existing SQL ecosystem.


  • GQL (Graph Query Language) is becoming an ISO standard, providing unified syntax across vendors.
  • Graph + AI: graphs now power reasoning, context enrichment, and RAG pipelines.
Neo4J Bloom

Source: Neo4J Bloom

Graphistry

Source: Graphistry


Conclusion

Graph databases represent a shift from storing information to understanding connections. By focusing on how entities relate, rather than just what they are, they reveal patterns and dependencies that traditional relational tables often conceal.

Over the past decade, graph technology has moved from specialised systems into the core of mainstream data platforms. Modern relational databases such as PostgreSQL and long-standing enterprise solutions like Oracle Spatial and Graph now integrate graph capabilities directly into SQL, making it easier than ever to explore relationships within existing environments. At the same time, dedicated platforms like Neo4j continue to advance graph-native performance and developer experience.

In the next article, we will explore how these technologies – Neo4j, PostgreSQL, and Oracle – bring graph concepts to life in practice, from simple traversals to enterprise-scale analytics.